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Valentine Tips For Guys

Right around the calendar corner, a holiday looms large when, as Americans, we’ll purchase more roses and chocolates than any other day of the year. It’s also a day when more guys take their dates to a restaurant than any other. With that in mind, here are ten tips for gentlemen to consider when planning an event with that special someone.

  1. Be sure the dining destination fits the mood you desire for the evening. Check the spot out in advance. And think about it; do you want bumpin’, thumpin’ music and disco balls suspended from the ceiling? Or, are you interested in candles, soft music and an intimate atmosphere? Keep in mind that booths are great, you can snuggle that way.

  2. Once at the restaurant, take your date’s coat and check it. Help her with her chair; show concern for her comfort level.

  3. Remember, the napkin is the first thing you deal with; lay it across your lap as soon as you’re seated.

  4. Call in advance and inquire about specials that evening. Also, quiz your date in advance and try to suggest something on the menu you know she enjoys.

  5. Discuss the menu and ask what your date would like to order for dinner. Memorize her choices and then ask if you might place the order with your server for her. This is a nice touch.

  6. NEVER drink too much, you risk getting sloppy. Have a glass of wine before or with dinner, split a specialty coffee and leave it at that.

  7. Take your time with dinner, enjoy the meal and savor the moment.

  8. Split dessert, feed your date once or twice, show a bit of creative whimsy.

  9. If dinner and the service was up to your standards, show it with a generous tip. 15% is standard, 18% is nice and 20% works for an excellent evening at the table.

  10. Good manners and proper etiquette dictate that when a lady leaves and returns to the table, a man rises from his chair. That’s protocol according to the book. Do what you feel she’ll appreciate.

BONUS TIP:

If you should decide to stay home and cook for your date, don’t try a new recipe on her for the first time that evening. Use recipes you’re experienced and comfortable with.

Posted by Floyd at February 6, 2006 10:13 AM